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In the past, no, even now, if a man has multiple partners, he is seen as a stud (most of the heroes in Thai literatures have more than one wife, most obvious one is 'khun paan') but if a woman does the same thing then she is a sl*t (again, in Thai literatures, you'll find 'nang kakee', 'nang wantong', 'nang suwannamalee'-these names can even be used as insults to women today).Ĭome to think of it, that sort of view still exist even in western countries today. So, I guess, it is a 'fascinating' double standard. It's not as bad these days but that was definitely the position in the past. I'm just explaining how the traditional view works. if her husband had been abusive, lazy etc etc. There may be some situations that the women won't get blamed so much ie. So it's the women's job to keep the family going'. It's the sort of view that says 'at least the men can't help it. They are seen as irresponsible, the cause of family break up and all the evil in the world. We can get to know each other first and then see where things go from there. Women who have 'chou' (มีชู้) are normally badly condemned in traditional Thai society. Hi, I am looking for a girlfriend or a mistress in SL. I don't know about bar girls but if a Thai woman has multiple partner (as in female version of having mia noi), the man would be called 'chou' (ชู้). There are certainly some fascinating double standards in Thailand. Is the female version of multiple partners (mia noi) a bar girl with several boyfriends sending her money every month?